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“Take nothing for your journey, no staff, nor bag, nor bread, nor money; and do not have two tunics.” (Lk.9:3)
That sounds like an impossible task in a world where we are used to traveling with full suitcases. What was still possible two thousand years ago seems in our time like a reckless undertaking. How can we fulfill this task—perhaps not in a literal sense, but in the figurative sense of the word? Can we go out into the world without inner ballast?
Every person carries a load with him from the past, not only from the course of his own life, but also from the lives of his ancestors. We have been marked by all of these, whether we want to or not; it has made us into prejudiced persons. Usually, it is with this burden that we meet other people. The burden becomes ballast when it is the only basis on which we evaluate others. Whatever does not fit into our limited images is then soon condemned.
“Tabula rasa” *, clean slate, was the name of the wax tablet used in antiquity, on which one wrote with a slate-pencil, and which was afterwards rubbed clean again, so that it could be used anew. It was a picture for the original state of the soul before it was filled with observations, thoughts, and feelings—a clean slate. We will never be able to go back to that original condition. But what we can do is to become conscious of the baggage we have brought with us for this life—in order, if only for moments, to become all eyes and all ears for every human being we meet, as if it were the first time we met this person. And otherwise, as if it were the last time we were meeting him—in order then to continue on the closely written path to our unknown destination. When we meet another person in this way, we fulfill the task Christ gave to His disciples: “Take nothing for your journey, no staff, nor bag, nor bread, nor money; and do not have two tunics.”
–Rev. Bastiaan Baan, August 16, 2021
* Literally: rubbed out writing tablet.
Do not judge. That seems like an impossible task in a world of clashing opinions—perhaps the most difficult task in the world. Hardly have we met a person, and our judgment is made, sometimes with the irrevocability of the Last Judgment, so that from that moment we can no longer meet this person with an open mind. Do not judge—how do you do that?
As soon as we have even a little bit of self-knowledge the judgment falls back on ourselves. For it is because of my one-sidednesses, my prejudices, that I cannot see others as they really are. If I would be all eyes, others would be able to appear to me in their own true individuality, instead of in my muddled look. In order to learn to see others, I must not only observe them all the time, but also myself. After all, my judgment says more about myself than about those others.
To make a step on the stubborn way toward open-mindedness the most effective means is perhaps to meet each human being as a riddle. For that is what we are to each other as long as we only appear to each other in our outer form. Within this riddle hides in the Holy of Holies the unknown I, which is still in a state of becoming. Each human being has a secret—so deeply hidden that we are even unable to discover our own secret, let alone that of another person. Whoever is aware of this riddle will guard against judging anyone.
Do not judge—not even yourself!
For judgment is not ours, but that of the Lord of the living and the dead.
–Rev. Bastiaan Baan, August 1, 2021
Each human being has an angel, thank God. We badly need him in our chaotic daily lives, for otherwise, we would get into big trouble. Even when we are about to lose our inner compass, the angel still watches over us and does his utmost to keep us on the right track. A Dutch saying goes: Children and drunkards have a special angel.
Still, an angel is not sufficient to prepare our way on earth. What would happen to us if there were no human beings who cross our path? One person can become as an angel for another when he serves him selflessly.
Christ—even Christ—also needs such a companion on earth, who prepares His way. “See, I send my angel before you.” (Mt.11:10) This task, the task of John the Baptist, is given to each human being, not only to the greatest of all human beings on earth. Each of us, wherever we go or stay, is called to stand ready for his neighbor like an angel. Since Christ lived on earth, since someone asked him: “Who is my neighbor?” we know who that is: for every person we meet on the path of our life, we can become a neighbor.
Keep your eyes and ears open, for in every encounter sounds a question.
You do not only have an angel.
Can you also be an angel for your neighbor?
–Rev. Bastiaan Baan, July 17, 2021