“I am with you always, to the close of the age.” (Mt.28:20)
Many of us have had the experience of having to lose a beloved friend because he died. Inevitably such a loss will open a wound that will not close for a long time. We cannot simply forget the deceased and go back to our daily occupations as if nothing had happened. There are many ways in our time, not only to keep the deceased in our memory, but also to let them appear to us as if they were still standing in the midst of life, by pictures, film, recordings, etc. There exists extensive technology to evoke recollections of events from the past—or should we say mummify them?
However, just as inevitably the wound will be opened, sooner or later it will close again. The memory pales. What remains is a scar. Life calls us back into the here and now. Fortunately there exists not only recollection, but also forgetting.
What does that look like for the deceased? Is there for him also something like remembering and forgetting? It is not difficult to imagine that he, the longer he is away from us, will also in some way forget, because he has to live into a completely different world. We even notice it—after years the deceased is no longer close to us, but far away.
Only one human being never left us since His death. Although He died more than two thousand years ago, He is just as close to us as at that time. He, and only He, then made us a promise for all time: “I am with you always, to the close of the age.” He is always with us.
But we—are we also always with Him?
-Rev. Bastiaan Baan, May 31, 2026

